GA, y'all...
I'm currently writing a massive read for any #nostr user to be able to take back control of the tech stack they use. This won't make normies happy, but I'm taking the approach of npub18dlusgmprudw46nracaldxe9hz4pdmrws8g6lsusy6qglcv5x48s0lh8x3 on this matter, but I'm also using some other techniques from other privacy advocates (even if they do the anonymity thing, which I think isn't possible).
Once it's out, I'd recommend setting some time to research this, especially since this is how you break free from the chains of convenience.