It works both ways. You know, it gets a bit boring when I am the bigger pervert and I have to always tiptoe when it's about sex. As a consequence, I can't fully open even in here. 🤷 I can barely find inspiration in porn. And I'm not talking about illegal stuff, it's not my thing.
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Once my wife and I took one of those kink tests, where you answer questions and they system only shows you what you matched on. The system thought I was trying to game the test, because I ticked almost everything. I'm either into it, or would do it for my wife.
Unfortunately, my wife is pretty vanilla. She's finally gotten comfortable with me rimming her. She rimmed me once, a very poor attempt too (although I didn't say that), and never again. She fingered me and pegged me a handful of times. She doesn't swallow. Our sex is essentially missionaire, with the ocassional lingerie from her. So it's hard to open up when she's not into anything.