Meetups have wildly different quality depending since they are all independently run.
If it is all club politics don't let that discourage you. Plenty of quality info on the internet.
Also remember the entire point of the hobby is talking to strangers anywhere in the world from your basement.
Sad we need that disclaimer but it is just a fact that many clubs are run by retired severely autistic boomers who never had any support for their autism or social skills development.