military should care only about max( lethality+readness ) and min ( cost ). Not woke equality pipedreams.
veterans' healthcare will cost more for women in any job with physical exertion, as infantery or jet pilots. USA and Israelis already found that. If men get hurt, women, even the ones who pass all physical tests, will get hurt more often ==> decades of veterans health costs.
Any love drama decreases readness. Like USA having to dissolve a whole ship crew due to a love triangle involving top officials.
Any separate accomodations will increase cost, time to build, use precious space. More WC, quarters, etc.
Prediction: this soldier-woman pipedream will disappear on the first serious war against a near-pair (same tech level) but nasty enemy.
Every day, another video of women soldiers getting raped until death. Or of women being overwhelmed on close quarters combat.
Daily humiliation will do wonders for morale. It will become clear that the girl-army will be the loser army.
On the other hand, most of modern military are non-combat troops.
one can have buildings full of women analysts, logistics number crunchers, back-side (not frontlines) medical personnel, long range UAV operators, etc. Just another set of public workers with nicer uniforms. they can even be a good % of military, far away from physical demands or combat.