When I met my wife she thought I was very poor because my soles on my shoes were so worn that you could see my socks.

She still jokes about that. I can say she definitely picked me for some reason other than money and status. nostr:note17uda9rrjqzuke3l098tgks98f2src9hqppq2lhv6anp6k7kkwfwqn2sejm