Be born with different genetics to another family? Go get plastic surgery? Go learn years of information that others were taught by their parents decades ago? Of course people can try harder. These stats are proof that some men will not be enough, even if they try. The messaging makes women increasingly comfortable living by themselves. I see some of them deciding they need to marry in their 30’s (when they realize they couldn’t get who they “deserved”). Half of the girls I personally know marrying over age of 30 are paying for IVF treatments. I think GEOMAXXING is a decent idea for those outside of the desirable stats. Many American women won’t appreciate what you do for them.
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All of the men who see these stats and say I have no chance won't reproduce and all of the men who see these stats and say I'm going to get into those categories will.
Thus proving my point.
I agree with you on geomaxing. If you're not finding the type of grill you want to be interested in you where you are, you have two choices. Either move to a place where you're better off comparatively or improve yourself
I’d love to be optimistic that they will but I’ve seen very kind, loving men who’ve moved states, had procedures, continued to try to go on dates still struggle. I’ve heard women complain about things that don’t seem like they should be part of happiness and wellbeing. It can become discouraging to go through all that and still be alone.
It’s obvious you’re working hard but you’re already winning as a man in the top percentage of attractiveness.
You're both right but what else can you do but try? Having said that alot of people will never find what they need and that's the sad truth. There are other paths in life as well
Yes, some people will try and will end up having to find another path. Simple as that đź‘Ť the stats exist for a reason
It's a pretty pessimistic view of the world in my opinion. You have no other choice than to keep going.
Also my not being fat or broke isn't something I was born with. I could have absolutely f***** that up, but Ididn't.
Genes, birth location and family can't be changed, but pretty much everything else can and making excuses for why you can't achieve something is the biggest reason you can't achieve it.