I understand. My point is not that it can’t be done though. It can. I’ve done it. Three separate times. It’s takes time and effort and can be done.
I would look into NextCloud if you want to move. You can sync the contents of your iPhone with the app. Once it’s all done (and it could take a long time) you’ll have less to worry about switching. I’m willing to share what worked for me (as well as what didn’t).
As it is, I still use Google Photos for my long term storage despite owning an iPhone. I have unlimited photo storage there, and no desire to migrate 400GB of photos and videos to another host.
The idea that people only buy iPhones out of stupidity, Stockholm syndrome, or being a sheep is kinda pissing me off though. The number of people willing to make backhanded insinuations about their friends on here is disappointing. The number of people thinking that buying a phone directly from Google, a company that literally decided to remove “don’t be evil” from their motto, to run software that won’t meet the needs of 99% of users, makes them better, smarter, or in any way freer, is ironic. And anyone who thinks I’m lazy after working 70 hours a week to care for my family while still managing to run several side projects, is misinformed.