ok I said this before

personality types are

- passive (doormat)

- passive aggressive (gossip, certain bullying (back handed pushing people out of a group), etc)

- assertive (healthy)

- aggressive (usually physical or very aggressive verbal bullying)

people I choose to associate with are assertive and many men are like this but I know lots of women who are assertive and just as fun

assertive just means you say what you mean without a hidden agenda, don't stretch the truth, and are honest

the rest of those personalities are gross for different reasons

there used to be stronger gender tendencies around these with women being the first 2 (and many gay guys) and men the last 2 but nowadays it's fairly mixed 😂