You are giving people to much credit.

In school they teach feelings as the arbiter of good vs bad arguments.

Aristotle's logic is no longer taught.

If someone understands logic and debate you will have a conversation that will evolve the idea, and both parties will be more than when they started.

Now its just.... If you don't agree with me, you're a Nazi.

This is lazy thinking.

Gl.

Find friends that know logic. It will enrich your life. :)