Confirmation bias is a bitch. Sucks to not be conscious of your own. Sucks to see someone else stuck in it.
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I don't care about them. I'll give them a chance to wake up but if they genuinely don't want to, then who am I to say I'm right and they're wrong. But we can't have any sort of relationship - that becomes obvious to me now.
I will not be so certain. I hope you can be less certain too.
I honestly think its a question of mutual respect.
I don't like that they want to be slaves but I'm not going to put myself above them and tell them how they should live their lives - because what do I know.
Of course the problem comes that they don't always show me the same respect and try to enforce their preference for bondage on me. So, fuck them if they do that but otherwise none of my business.