I am with you. Willing to do for the better.
So lets face the issues where we see them. I see a lot when showing nostr to normal everyday whatsapp/twitter users.
Their feedback is worth much more than our decentralized fan-bubble-talk.
#Nostr (and clients like #Damus) are still full of flaws and little stumbling blocks we love to fade out as we love decentralization.
We need to bring UX to the standards of whatsapp - not change the user to accept flaws.