Good thing no one forces anyone to use any of them. To each their own. But I'm with you. If I need absolute privacy... Monero is it, all these other btc gyrations of coin join, swaps, whirlpools or what the fuck ever... Just swap to monero and send it.
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To some extent there is privacy via lightning network, but for small transactions - as it’s hard to find people with large open channels that offer liquidity for substantial purchases