You are restating my point in reverse.
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I don’t think I am. You’re talking about not tolerating intolerance; I’m talking about not being mislabeled as xenophobic or racist just for maintaining your own cultural boundaries.
Similar territory, but a different emphasis.
I’m saying you can maintain cultural standards and boundaries (reject suicidal empathy) without being racist.
You are saying, it’s not racist for maintaining boundaries.
Close, but subtle difference. You’re talking about the principle that it’s possible to maintain boundaries without being racist. I’m pointing out that people often get labeled racist when they do that, and that label itself should be rejected.