There’s a big natural tension between free speech and privacy. If forced to choose, would you chose:
Free Speech
OR
Privacy
You can do either well, but trying to do both at once forces a lot of compromise.
If you want to throw stones, maybe you should live in a glass house. If you want to live in a brick house, maybe you don’t get to throw stones.
Self governing systems are the best, have the lowest cost and are the most scalable. Sooner or later, choices have to be made.