Umbrel. It has one click set ups for things like Bitcoin node lighting nodes, Nostr relays and other things like btcpay.
You can use next cloud on it all for managing files etc.
Either one works, it's just a UI over docker containers.
No need to buy their hardware either, just run it on an old machine.
Tbh I don't run either after I figured out how to run docker containers and tailscale.
GPT is your friend and I've spent ZERO on hardware or software, just repurposed an old desktop machine, wiped it clean, installed a headless Ubuntu server and docker and basically just made my own, lean clean version of Umbrel/start9.
