I think you're conflating the 'is' & the 'ought'.
We ought not to be subject to our bodies whims & fears, but most still are.
When one finds Truth, awakening from a long slumber, we are confronted by a realisation that we cannot simply awaken others. Even those that seem awake still nap frequently as various triggers arise. We must walk with this Truth in the hope that others will awaken of their own accord.
What Cahlen is talking about is returning to a more natural human dynamic where the divine feminine is allowed to express itself through women. We have denied this divine feminine expression by placing a burden on women that they were never meant to carry.
The psyop was first feminising men which led to the masculinising of women & the suppression of the divine feminine.
He's talking about men needing to pick the burden back up, to restore the support of the brotherhood & free women so that they can express the love that they so badly want to express.
Fear is the tool of darkness.