I feel this corn

My senior coworker is making my life difficult because I've had more experiences and training than him. Tried to prevent me from getting a raise, bad talking me to the boss, etc

Sad actually

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What a bum

"if I knew it would be like this I wouldn't have gotten you hired"

Gotta hit him with the “Sorry you feel this way”

Then just get back to work

Ugh sorry to hear that. It’s so frustrating. I wasn’t in that exact situation, but had a job where I was better at doing it than my supervisor and he frequently took credit for my work, and made last minute changes to things to set me up for failure so then he could swoop in and “fix” things and make himself look good for upper management. I tried meeting with management about it but they loved him because he knew who to suck up to, and so they wouldn’t listen. Fortunately I was able to maneuver my way into a new role that wasn’t under his supervision, and that allowed me to minimize direct contact with him. He left the company before me and multiple complaints came out against him that validated what I had told management. It was such a frustrating situation and I was happy to finally leave that company. All that to say, I hope you find ways to minimize the negative from that coworker. Probably there is no single “right” way to approach it, but just don’t let yourself be gaslit or taken advantage of.

I appreciate your experience with that. Very similar experience. He'll manipulate things to make it looks like he's doing you a favor. Very controlling, very bizarre.

I'm also considering moving to an afternoon shift which will only give me ~45 minutes of interaction instead of 8. If that doesn't work, I may consider changing roles so I don't work with him at all. I don't want to switch companies because that's quite stressful.

All in all it really affected me at first, huge anxiety attacks going to work. But now it's just petty, hes all bark, no bite. I don't have anxiety about it anymore. He's just a pesky mosquito. And it turns out everyone in the dept feels the same towards him as I do hah

Rereading your comment, it sounds exactly the same situation as me. Practically sounds like the same person

Why are people like that?