I donāt really see a problem?
Personally I donāt care if relays have different lists for likes? Personally I donāt really see much merit in following the ālikesā format of ye olde social media.
Notes should have a reply button, a boost/broadcast button so I can forward it to all my followers, a tip button that auto sends 1 or 2 sats, and a share button to post a link to the note elsewhere on the web.
Do you want an algorithm (created by whom? operated by whom?) to curate viral Tweets? Or do you just want things to spread organically?
I quite like things being organic and emergent, and likes actually being some infinitesimally small nano transaction.
Just consider how much more engaging nostr is, which is currently organic, compared to Twitter, which is algo driven. Itās not even comparable.