That's why you run your own relay. But clients are useless I they're not using outbox and your relay is not in someone else's list. They won't see your posts. The issue is not with relays as I would advocate to run your own. The issue is with clients not fetching other notes based on a users relay. Say If I write to my relay and you follow me but my relay is not in your list, if the client isn't using outbox, you won't see my posts.
Discussion
Which clients have outbox? Is that a NIP that some clients don't implement?
nostr:nprofile1qqsr7acdvhf6we9fch94qwhpy0nza36e3tgrtkpku25ppuu80f69kfqpz9mhxue69uhkummnw3ezuamfdejj7qghwaehxw309aex2mrp0yhxummnw3ezucnpdejz7qg4waehxw309aex2mrp0yhxgctdw4eju6t09ug4n6q3 where that list of outbox supported clients?
I have a list somewhere but off the top of my head, in the middle of the ocean, I'll say 0xChat, Amethyst, Snort, Gossip, Iris, Nostrudel, and anything that uses the NDK.
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Also Coracle
nostr:npub1jlrs53pkdfjnts29kveljul2sm0actt6n8dxrrzqcersttvcuv3qdjynqn you should document and promote your Welshman library for Nostr. It’s this secret gem.
Oh, thanks, I'm glad you like it! I am actually working on documenting it as of a couple weeks ago. What in particular do you like about it?