What is something a past relationship has taught you?
For me itās that no matter how great you think a relationship is, if you donāt have trust, friendship and communication, itās not a great relationship.
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This truly is THEE most important lesson. Love is null without trust.
Donāt take shit and know your worth
Great sex, and money help.
Sex is critical for true connection imo. Im always shocked how many women I know who say it is unimportant. I donāt have any male friends who believe that.
The power of saying no. In fact Iād didnāt find the courage to say no until my late 20s. Saying no to women being the hardest thing to do.
That it really takes a lifetime to TRULY know someone. Everyone has skeletons in their closet. Most of the time itās always communication though! Being on the same page is key!
All therapist agree.
If she can't make good spaghetti & or he can't grill a good burger.
It's just not going to work out.
That if you really love someone you must also love that person when that someone leaves you. If you can't do that your love was ephemeral and not love at all.
Fundamentally, people donāt change. Respect your no-fly list (itās at least as important as your wish list, if not more so).
Love itself is not important. Trust your guts and be honest with yourself.
Relationships are not hard when you share values. Started asking all the hard questions up front. Now happily married for five years.
Totally agree man! That is, I feel the most important, speak about values and respect the differences.
Stop chasing it.
Everything moves forward. Life is full of beautiful things waiting.
People who think it is "hard work" just don't have experience, or they keep picking the same (wrong) people to date.
There are people out there with whom life is just easy.
You just stay with someone because parts of the relationship are good.
first love yourself, to be able to give love to another person!
Iād have to say to not ignore those little red flags š© that pop up in the early initial stages because youāre enamored. They usually become the reason youāre fleeing to the hills. Pay attention to the little red flags.
Thatās the bottom line, no doubt
Only unlimited Love matters. No rules, no tricks, just love from your whole heart. I even failed this simple thing with my next relationship...