Alright I am definitely digging gossip (desktop nostr client). If you don't care to understand how nostr works and just want to use it, don't use gossip. But if you want to know exactly how the relays and different types of messages and stuff work, then it's really cool. I needed to check something like 40 different relays to find info about all my follows, even though I only connect to 16 from other clients. Not sure exactly how that works!
Probably won't be my daily driver just yet due to lack of global feed. Thanks #[0] for posting about it.