The trap is comparing yourself to others
Yes, in ALL aspects of life...not just here
I also think teh sosh meedz is ruining people...even nostr can be a bit toxic to some, if they don't "mind over matter" it and kinda realize it's all bs if you take it too seriously (and there a TON of people who take nostr too seriously or sink lots of time/effort into it without appreciating the reward of it)
The reward of nostr (not including zaps/monetization):
- No forced algorithm
- No central point of failure / CEO / Corporate structure
- No ads
- Easier to find freedom-centric folks than elsewhere