I didn't take offense to this because it doesn't apply to me, but in all seriousness this is why I don't hang out with other programmers LOL.
But I don't post much either, which I'll have to fix. l'll give you that, you post effortlessly while I have to actually make myself post.
It seems that substantive discussion is in the process of moving off all of these scrolling feed type sites - back to forums and blogs where it belongs I guess.
But anyway:
-X still has a critical mass of users that allows there to be some intelligent posters, but you can't say anything controversial ( I got sent to the penalty box recently for just a moderate and general insult, nothing targeted ) and even finding content can be a challenge.
-Nostr you can say anything but it's not ready for primetime. The crowd here makes me think of guys who had an edgy libertarian phase in college but then never moved past it. That seems to be a constant for any crowd with software nerds.