Maybe there are people who would like what you post... But your web of trust looks very small. If the people you follow and the people who follow you are in different time zones, it doesn't help either.

But you're right... Women and people known in the Bitcoin & Nostr ecosystem are the ones who get the most interaction from any kind of notes. However, nostr will never be facebook.

I have the same problem like you. I get a few zaps and likes on my posts, but have not meaningful conversations or replies. Kind of sad on a platform about free speech.