nostr:npub1cm8rf05gdat6qus8ynphsdmufahfg9pmhsaygnrrmghuff9vz7aqzgzjyl I think your best bet is the three dots to the right of their profile picture. There should be an option for a direct message. If you click the globe option while posting, you should be able to choose who sees it. It's my understanding that "private" messages aren't technically possible here and genuinely personal exchanges should use encryption.
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thank you. I clicked on "@ Private Mentions" but that's not the ticket I gather.
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thank you. I reallyl appreciate the tutorial.
I just need his address but obvs that's not something anybody wants splashed all over the mastodon!