https://youtu.be/EMeME1xbZ8w?si=9pcc1CWtlab0NehO

What happens when there's a strain on your relationship... and eventually your lady disrespects what you're doing?

He might not be making a lot of money.

But it is basically a side hustle that he spends 30 minutes to an hour on a day.

So you can't find a charger that's right near you on your own? You can't wait until he's done doing his thing? He was aggravated enough to point out the disrespect, but in a nice way.

This may be why he needs a vacation.

And she may want him to do something else with his time... idk. Buut...

In times like this it's important to have a calm discussion. It's nothing so bad that you can't get through it. However, if left unchecked it could turn into a very toxic and abusive situation.

First she can't find things right next to her. Then she can't stand not getting enough attention. Then she can't stand you giving other people attention. Then she can't stand how you give attention. Then she can't do shit for herself.... meanwhile... it goes from, "you see what I'm doing here?!" To something like "bitch I'm working!" To "get off my back" to "get it your own damn self" to I can't stand giving you all this attention or not being able to give other people attention to I can't fucking stand you and I'm done - for both parties

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Red flags in a relationship may be subtle but worth paying attention to.

Maybe it was sabotage.

https://youtu.be/KGep6Z4i4VY?si=4TdywiteYKClqusp

Reading the readers

Well I wasn't wrong

Minor disrespect developed into something that wasn't private anymore

Still manageable yet snowballed out of control leaving both parties to say I'm done

And now he's posting receipts of what he pays her...

Oh this is going to get into some big big - BMG drama...

I'm not surprised.

Side note:

If you have to start looking over your shoulder because people around you are wearing the wrong color too much... It's time to reevaluate some shit son.

(I mean - he put it out there - like people can't tell what it is)

Note:

One way or another dog...

Either you wanna stay on the road you been on or you don't.

But sometimes them demons pop up out of nowhere and they try to suck out your soul.

They wanna steal your life energy.

And then you have spirits that just make you feel trapped. They wanna put your energy into stagnation mode. Ya feel.

Or you reevaluate and make a new path

But no matter what you do, you gotta be aware of the energy that surrounds you.