Want a successful life? It is priced in pain.
Want a strong, fit body? You need to work out and endure the pain in the gym.
Want great communication skills and deep relationships? You must go out, interact with people, and face embarrassment, feeling the pain.
Want to build a successful business? You must start, fail, and struggle through the pain of those failures.
Want to understand how the world really works? You must explore, take risks, and fail again, experiencing pain.
Everything in life is paid for in pain. Your ability to endure it will directly determine the quality of the life you create.