i agree the debate is sane.
And perhaps it is a good lesson for future.
Words can have been hurting here, but people were angry about it.
Next time there is a concern about a point, the earlier the debate is, the better it will end (on each side, even if there is only one blockchain).
Of course devs have done a good job.
But i agree you can't say to node owners (that control the network) just don't ask question and stay quiet, we do the best for you, you don't need to understand.
Node are as important as devs and miners.
That's why they have to find a way to communicate before it become a drama. To avoid all this rage words or heavy silence on any side.