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No. I read those before I met her. Because someone once told me, "if you want something, what are you doing to prepare for it? If you want to be married, shouldn't you read books on marriage BEFORE you get married? If you want to be a parent, shouldn't you do research BEFORE you have children?"

Once phrased like that, it's kind of obvious.

SoupBox 1y ago

That is awesome that you took that initiative. Your wife is very lucky woman if you can apply teaching methods to build a stronger foundation with her. Love it.

I was watching a tarot reading yesterday, and let me sum up the lesson of the reading as best I can...

If you meet someone that is elevated spiritually and you haven't done the work to elevate yourself, the relationship will not be successful. You need to meet the person on their level. A spiritually evolved person will not tolerate your bullshit. Do the work on yourself.

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Kevin 1y ago

Correct. Or in other words, you can't EXPECT a certain kind of person if you aren't that kind of person YOURSELF.

You're screening for and auditioning for the single most important relationship in your life. Are you qualified for what you're looking for?

I wanted to be qualified. I'm not perfect, nobody is... But I can be perfect for her, and she can be perfect for me.

SoupBox 1y ago

facts.