I wasn't specifically referring to you, and in regards to relays, none of my twitter friends know about relays and stuff, aren't even into #btc and it wasn't easy explaining stuff to them so even I wasn't able to convince them to switch to #nostr. This isn't a perfect place. It has potential, but seeing how people demean others on here, it's not even half as welcoming as Threads to be bothered with. Yes, people on here trash Threads like hell and don't even lift a finger to make #nostr as welcoming as 'the others'

and if I provide some constructive criticism, the gods of nostr see me as a dark monster, not even bothering to look into the faults and flaws of this place, like if someone tells you you've got dirt on your face, the appropriate course of action would be to look into the dirt, and remove it, then thank the informer of the dirt, not criticize - that's immature and outright unhinged