If you have never tried shooting a basketball into the basket, your first attempts will likely be awkward and unsuccessful. You might miss the basket and feel uncomfortable. After taking many shots, perhaps a hundred, you will start feeling more confident and may even score.

The same principle applies to other aspects of life.

If you have never approached women on the street, your initial attempts may feel strange and embarrassing. However, with enough practice, you will become more comfortable and may even begin to succeed.