communities have to make decisions somehow penguin
you can call it "hostile" because some rando running a node somewhere disagrees or isn't interested in change.
your perspective there just results in "nothing ever happens because somebody somewhere doesn't understand or doesn't agree"
it results in inaction 100% of the time with a community of more than 50 people.
there are no "win-win" utopian solutions where everybody agrees and nobody gets hurt.
welcome to the real world.
we move forward.