yes but you make stuff like what happened with highperfocused and cloudfodder in the gopher chat less likely to happen, i just made that channel to get people talking to each other about building go stuff, and cloudfodder jumped in and helped out as well as me
i think there is a lot of benefit in this soft approach
probably it helps that i'm in the process of house training a cat, this little guy does NOT like force, at all, every moment i am violent i am losing his trust, and even, like just before, his big dady, pretty sure he's daddy, came around to visit, the neighbour cat, and i carefully intervened so that these two didn't get too close to each other and mochi had his safe place in my place and the other cat didn't tread on me or my pet
doesn't take force to achieve this, more, just vigilance and readiness