Lovely character doesn’t guarantee success, therefore sometimes you have to kick out those who don’t contribute to meetings. (Personal experience)

However, hard-style with core brainpower doesn’t guarantee success neither, since not everyone equips the equivalent power level.

Balance is important on a basis of sufficient logics (cold-headed).

Eventually what really makes people to love you is how efficiently you can help them get what they want!

(Harsh words, real world)