I had issues receiving zaps on damus with Blue Wallet after I updated Primal and their supercool native wallet. At this point, I just zap fewer Sats from Blue Wallet (Alby connected) on Damus, and receive no zaps there. I have to load it occasionally to replenish. But on Primal, that wallet is loaded and automatically receives zaps since the upgrade. I am too weary to chase down the solution, so I just roll with it. I wish I knew how to help you, but I am afraid to mess up a good enough situation with a possible crap one. Keep #asknostr, there are some really smart folks on here who can help.