That’s alright 💜🫂
If you are using Damus as a client :
When you click on my relays, you will see a « show » in the upper right of the screen. Click on that, and you will see a + button near the relays, click on that to add them.
Those relays are purely based on my experience here. I cannot tell you exactly which one to choose.
nostr.wine is a pretty good one, but it’s a paid one.
There was a website that shows you all the existing relays in Nostr, but I don’t have the link 😭
How did you choose the relays you have? Did you just start adding miscellaneous relays? Are relays just relays or do some of them have personalities (in a sense?)
You can say that I choose them to maximize coverage, these are popular relays.
If you want relays by topic, the only one I know is the one that nostr:npub1995y964wmxl94crx3ksfley24szjr390skdd237ex9z7ttp5c9lqld8vtf launched today.
If you want to browse nostr by topic, try looking for hashtags that interest you.
There is something called communities also which is the nostr version of subreddits, you might want to look into that (see the website satellite.earth)
nostr:note1csr56crs0ssz8zcu8yghdmvaxerd5pkwegqad3qemmd2ucu0urdqxlwv56
