again, you see, the problem is that there is this illusion about privacy that is in conflict with reliability, at the base of this engineering decision, to break the guarantees of an aspect of a protocol.
you want to use ephemerals because you don't trust the relay
but you need the events to be persistent for a short time so clients can catch up
see the contradiction there? either trust the relay, or go p2p. if you go p2p you see that it's no different to the ephemeral event over the relay, and when you think about it, the whole internet is an ephemeral event transport.