It's a sad consequence that choosing to be frugal to stack sats, such as choosing to not order expensive meals when out with friends and just order a beer after eating before our after at home, is seen as being monetarily insecure.
So when sharing advice about Bitcoin with others, they see it as not what they want just by observing you not spending as freely as them. (Because you actually have hope for a future you want to save for)
Leading to your friends ignoring your advice while your net worth continuously rises and they continue to struggle.