I agree. The model is not sufficiently decentralised if we need to rely on infrastructure providers. It could easily be more decentralised and it has the capabilities. But the current implementation doesn't encourage the widespread use. That's imo SimpleX biggest mistake that will cost it market share if not fixed.

In the end it's me the individual that wants to control what I get to see and what not with the option of changing my decision on a case by case basis.