People use likes, but they provide no value to the recipient. I already use nostr without them, and have been doing so for nearly 2 years now. In client apps that offer the option, I even completely remove them from my UI so not only do I never see the like button but I also never see when others like posts. It has made my social media experience so much better. But yes they exist and probably aren’t going away. I do encourage everyone to try nostr for a while without them.