Not to PhD. or to over analyze this. To lass, find one man you love, not two.

Knew a lass, that said she could come only by thinking about the man. No action required. So she said and swore by it and other experiences tell same story.

To this lass, find three?

One to cook.

One to clean.

One to love?

Me? Is old fashioned, keep the one that does all three.