I kind of realize that the reason I often tend to think that the problems others face are easily solvable, but if I find myself in a similar situation, I struggle (or I always feel others have a easier life) is that when the subject is someone else, I would analyse the situation in a very rational way, and step1 step2 very clear. But if the subject is myself, I tend to involve too much emotion and get everything tangled together to complicate the situations.

Next time if found myself in struggle, could switch the mindset to a AI or a cold blood killer.