Sounds like you stopped cultivating your interests and hobbies to make people like you, or at least do not disdain you.

Sounds to me like a "you" problem.

I imagine they weren't holding you at gun point preventing to go outside or study spinning balls of gasses, you decided at some point to not pursue your interests to conform.

I was bullied too, because I was a Sicilian boy, a mafioso, growing up in a different land, because I had a dandruff problem and an acne problem, because I used to wear glasses, because I played videogames back when it wasn't a cool habit, rather a basement dweller one, because I had a round belly.

That didn't stop me to be me or to fight back, I kicked everyone's ass one by one until the bullying stopped and I truly believed that it made me stronger.

I showered more often, used Topexan for my face, lost weight and made them see what a Sicilian guy can do, than a non Sicilian guy cannot.

It is not up to others to protect your feelings, otherwise you are no different than the woke mass retardation.

Plus I said mild. Violence as an offense is never the answer, but as defense is one helluva answer.

Non c'è bisogno che te lo spieghi in italiano, se vuoi capire, capisci, senno 'zzi tuoi.

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Happy you took care of it by yourself.

Doesn’t mean it applies to everyone.

Kicking everyone’s ass is all well and nice if you have the phyiscal means to do it, and if no one decides to escalate and bring something extra for revenge.

If we follow your logic and all kids would want to be bullies, you’d soon have plenty of teethless children, or worse.

I firmly believe all kids (boys, and especially girls) should be taught how to defend themselves, but I also believe kids should learn to respect and look out for eachother.

The two usually go hand in hand, and will lead to better outcomes over time for everyone.

Certainly no one should care for his own feelings more than the person itself.

That doesn't mean we should incourage bullism, mild or violent or whatever form you wish to name.

With no doubt that situations make you stronger or annihilate you, but wishing that to any other person is quite selfish.

I want the society to improve, not to stand still on the '80s.

Stammi bene