As a daughter who recently made her mom a grandmother... Give her some grace. My pregnancy was sooo hard and so was post partum but eventually I got out of it all with the help of my patient mom. Your daughter needs you most right now but the payoff will be worth it. You will love this baby more than you know. And YOU helped make the baby because when you made your daughter you made all her eggs. It really is such a profound thing to experience as mother and daughter. It'll be hard and you will probably do so much and it'll feel thankless at times. But one day your daughter will eventually thank you 😅