Find better ones how exactly?
Is there a central trust list?
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thats exactly what we're trying to move away from
Gotta do your research. Find each of your relay's operators, read their privacy policies and terms and conditions. You need to know who you are "in business with" and what they are and are not doing with your data. Don't delegate that due diligence to anyone else.
And always remember, if it's free, you are the product.
This is not easy for non tech people.