You will never get ready

“I will go abroad once I …”

“I will start to date someone once I …”

…the list goes on

So I always live in the future always live in the if

That ain’t cool at all and you need to live in the moment, the future will come, or say you can get there.

Don’t worry that you can’t get anything done or you are not good at anything. Just fake it until you make it.