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A friend said asking "is this essential?" might help. I can see that helping cut through the emotions...always gotta make sure you are asking the right questions.
I definitely don't think it is silly. Hell, I need an emotional support person to hold my hand right now ๐ A book is nothin'! But seriously, I think the book just guides you to think about it properly. Gotta reframe the situation with different thoughts. If a book gets you there, then do it!