This is (I call her molasses lips because the pigment on her mouth looks like she just slurped up some molasses)

only time I can pet her is when she's eating like this but she likes to follow me around at arms length.

She's the oldest heifer in the herd.

The second cow that pushed her out of the way, that's Spot, she's the youngest mother from the herd, they're about the same age.