Yeah, if the two people are younger the likelihood of this is probably higher - makes for a tough situation... But having that spector looming over the relationship (where one person wants children and the other does not) is a recipe for disaster... Unless the person wanting children can truly be at peace letting go of having children.

Tough all around. Having true love is it's own blessing though, so I'd hope it could work.

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I had a couple of friends, they were married for 11y, but eventually they did separate. He wanted kids, she didn't.

They met when they where like between 22/25.

He, soon after got divorced to her, married to another woman and had kids....3...

I met her one day and she was desolated....and seemed a bit regretful. Life is made of choices.

Everyone should pursue their dreams but I think is wise to have flexibility and have an open mind.

We never know what challenges life through at us.