Must be a personality thing or something. I absolutely need a calendar. I need some level of organization or I would end up sitting at home all day, forgetting I was going to hang out with buddies that night.
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In my world that means you just didn’t wanna hang out with those buddies that much.
I think it's an introvert thing. There are often times when I say to myself, "I don't want to do this," and then I decide that I WILL be doing it because of that initial reaction.
I'm comfy sitting at home alone/with the wife, but I know I'll enjoy these things once I get over that initial feeling. You still have to force yourself to be uncomfortable at times.
I can stand behind this. Almost every time I didn’t want to do something and was forced to do it I end up enjoying.
Ah see as an extrovert I actually get energy from social interaction, meaning if I’m feeling resistance it’s usually because I just don’t enjoy spending time with that person/group whatever. So I’ve learned to trust my gut in that regard.
How about phone calendar! With alerts ‼️